Today I have seen very rotten remarks being made about Dave, Beth, Robin and Jug and I ask myself why? Why can people not write honest and respectful posts in which they state why they disagree with something these 4 people have done.
WHY MUST IT ALMOST ALWAYS BE DONE WITH SO MUCH DISRESPECT TOWARDS BETH, JUG, DAVE AND ROBIN?
Why? I know there are plenty of people who are against the boycott, or who disagree with remarks/accusations made in the media regarding this case and regarding the guilt of the 3 known and most likely suspects, but would it kill you to voice those opinions respectfully? Why must you try to offend people to the core of their being, by making remarks and using pictures that are filled with hatred and disrespect? Don't you have the verbal skills to effectively post your opinion or are you such a poor excuse for a human being that you enjoy inflicting pain?
Why the need to put up disgusting images of Beth Twitty? Too much time on your hands maybe? No discernable morals present? Or do you think your sick sense of humor is funny? When I see such pure hatred towards a human being, who has done you absolutely nothing then I feel sad and disgusted. I feel sad for Beth because she has to witness such deprevation and I feel disgusted because I know there are people out there that think such behaviour is acceptable.
I also know there are people who keep insulting 2 of Natalee's loved ones (Dave and Robin) for no good reasons whatsoever on a blog that supposedly is there to get Justice for Natalee and to spread the word about the voluntary tourism boycot against Aruba.
In my honest opinion they fail on both accounts, they are not getting Justice for Natalee because they are doing everything in the world that Natalee would never do or never approve of, things like:
1. spreading hatred
2. attacking her father and her stepmother
3. not spreading the word of a voluntary travel boycott but attempting to shove it through everyones throat because in the eyes of these boycott-bloggers you are not supporting the family or Natalee if you aren't totally boycott obsessed like they are
4. dividing the supporters of Natalee by their actions
On this blog too words of pure evil are spoken. But here the hatred and disgusting remarks are solely directed at Robin and Dave (yes Dave gets insulted just as much as Robin does because if you insult a man's wife, you insult him too). I can almost daily read the ramblings of a couple of really unintelligent and/or depraved people there. People who have almost certainly never actually spoken or interacted with these 2 lovely people, yet they keep writing the vilest lies and accusations about them and it makes me sick to my stomach and really really angry. I must say that such evilness towards the 2 of the 4 parents of Natalee Holloway is totally unacceptable and I would like to wager a bet that all 4 of Natalee's parents would agree with me on that one.
The future
So what will the future hold? I don't know. I really don't. I would like to believe that people will see the error of their ways and stop posting the insulting and evil rubbish they have been spewing so far. Because for those who have forgotten it, we are here because of Natalee:
We are all here because of Natalee Holloway. And we are supposed to be here for her 4 parents. We are supposed to support Beth, Jug, Dave and Robin because these people have been robbed of one of the most precious things a human being will ever know, the love of their child.And that loss is compounded by the fact that they don't know where she is and by the fact that who-ever is responsible for the disappearance of their lovely child is still not behind bars where he belongs /they belong.
Look at these pictures and you will see LOVE. Nothing more and nothing less. And it doesn't matter whether we look at pictues of Dave and Natalee, of Beth and Natalee, of Robin and Natalee or of Jug and Natalee, you can see the LOVE in their eyes on these pictures and if you have a modicum of empathy, you can almost feel the love they felt for one another.
These people have been robbed of their future with Natalee, and it is so sad to see that people cannot respect them and Natalee enough to stop the hatred towards these four parents.
Dave, Jug, Beth and Robin loved Natalee and they loved Natalee with all their heart. Natalee loved her 2 step-siblings and her 2 half-sisters dearly every bit as much they loved her back. Natalee's life was about love, not about hatred. So please, for the person that Natalee is/was, stop disrespecting her loved ones.
And a message for those bloggers/posters who have been recently trying to drive a wedge between these 4 parents, you can stop trying because there is no chance in hell that you will ever succeed in doing that. You will never succeed because when it comes to Natalee, Beth/Jug/Dave and Robin are a united front. United in their love for Natalee and united in their goals and actions.
Rammstein
p.s. I would like to thank Debbie, my dear friend for making the wonderful picture collage. She is much more talented at that then I am so she was so kind to make this one for us.
Thanks Debbie.
10 comments:
Thank you Ramm for speaking for so many of us.
You are so true to yourself, and I admire you much for speaking the truth.
When is enough, enough? NOW!
Hi Ramm,
Queen of Denmark again.... After reading your blog today, I must say that I am GRATEFUL that I do not visit those hate sites. I just cannot fathom WHY anyone would want to verbally assault the bereaved family members of a talented and beautiful young woman who has gone missing. It is far beyond my comprehension. In fact, it's not even in the realm of anything I could possibly comprehend.
I suppose I could ask a moderator from one of those sites to explain to me why they need to profess hatred towards Natalee's family. But I know I just wouldn't "get it". Trying to "get it" would just be a waste of brain activity on my part (on their part, too, but that's their problem and not mine).
Rock on, Ramm
I guess one of the sites you speak of is that arubaboycottblog thing, but what is the other one??
Refugees. A lot of nice people post there but there are some people there that behave like I have described in this blog-entry.
I, like you have been reading today and I am so angry with all these people that bash Natalee and her family and what makes me even more angry is the ones who are trying to tear apart Natalee's family
some people ( and you know who you are) post such horrible things in Beth's name,I do not know Beth But I can't imagine she would want these so called friends and supporters of hers to spread hate and use her name much less Natalee's
and then you have the Joran supporters saying horrible things about Beth & Jug and Dave & Robin.
There are people out there that are trying so hard to cause trouble within the blogs and forums spreading lies,going from forum to forum using different names trying to turn everyone against each other.
I read a post at Michelle's blog yesterday and you can feel the hate in this person just by reading his/her words for those that have not read this I will copy it here,I will not post the name of the person who posted If anyone wants to see who they can go to Michelle's blog and keep in mind also Michelle claims to be a friend and supporter of Beth Twitty yet she allows people to post such hate on a blog that she says is for Natalee
here is the post
It seems that the BFN'rs have been very busy raising a child and performing a miracle at the same time!! Perhaps it is due to their phony "christianity" and some of Gagirl's witchcraft. But, they are all very pleased with themselves for having turned around the life of Reality. Yes, folks, through their prayers, love and understanding, and especially the maternal instincts of Angelalalala and Andie they have raised that boy up well!!! He is a new person, has found the true soul inside himself that he never knew was there until he was embraced by the loving care of the BFN Family ( I guess none of them have peeked over at RU and seen what their little "darling" aka Alvin is doing over there) but let's not burst their bubble, take away their moment of glory as they bask in the brilliant sunlight eminating from their "accomplishment". Poor Softail, came back from vacation to find this "new" Reality and has decided that he must have brainwashed the whole group, his name for BFN now is "The Reality Cult". This did not set too well with Gagirl, after all nobody is paying any attention to her, so off to the Refuse Pile she goes. But, now , folks, this so called Georgia peach is now neither Fish nor Fowl!!! (Oh, we all know she is foul) but she has been pretending to be a Natalee supporter, which you can imagine makes HER Personna non Grata at RU. Try as she would Trixie could NOT make this non-person get the picture she was not wanted over in the bowels of the blogs. What a slap! Nobody wants Gagirl, EVEN the refugees. Maybe someone will light a candle for her tonight, come ON guys, this is sad, she needs a home, at least ONE friend.. I wonder...hmmm do you think.... Robin would be her friend? Maybe, out of the "goodness" of his new heart the "new Realty" "Leader of the Cult" could call her and ask her. Andie, herself, told me the Holloways are VERY good friends of his!!!! end of post
This is pure hate at it's worse and again this person claims to be a supporter of Natalee's mother
This is what I think needs to be done
Natalee's parents ALL 4 of them are going to have to put a stop to this.Let these so called supporters of theirs know They will not let anyone use their name and family to spread lies and hate.
This has gotten way out of hand and needs to be stopped.
That post at Michelle's with so much hate is by AuntieM. Along with bashing of Reality, the slander and hate of Angelalala and Andie is so brave. (Not.) And of course, immediately after that little diatribe of hate (as quoted above) Michelle closed comments to the thread. Heaven forbid anyone might come along and take up for anyone she hates. But then, for the most part, Michelle only rarely posts any of the comments supporting anyone at BFN or Robin.
Michelle today indicated that she was going to re-focus her blog on the boycott. Hopefully this means that bashers of Robin will no longer be allowed to post their evil attacks.
Yes. She did say that, but that is a FAR CRY short of apologizing to anyone including Robin, removing the hate that is already there - hate that she rarely posted comments in support of anyone from BFN or Robin. And it does nothing to specifically say her hate is NOT on behalf of Beth.
Excellent place to vent,Ramms
Very sad to know that some posters are just lurking around, spreading bad news and playing both sides of the Boards.They are not only bashing these families but each other.And as they lash out they lose respect of many fellow posters who once may have Respected their opinions.
I just want the truth of what happened that night and closure for the families.
ramm said:
Michelle today indicated that she was going to re-focus her blog on the boycott. Hopefully this means that bashers of Robin will no longer be allowed to post their evil attacks.
She may stop the hate on her blog and I hope she does, from what i hear there is a new site truth4natalee,they claim to be a supporter of Beth,some of the things that i have seen and heard coming from that site,there is no way I believe that Beth approves of some of the nasty things they say about People there.
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