Hello!!! How does bashing Robin Holloway support Natalee/Natalee's family?

It seems there was supposed to be a meeting of supporters of Natalee Holloway and for some reason Meri (who was invited) wasn't happy with the list of invited persons. Not only did she not agree with the list but for some reason she feared she might "act out in anger and frustration at to what she sees as a very sad situation".

I would think that working as a united front in the quest to find Natalee and get the justice she and her family so desperatly needs should be a paramount concern to all involved but that is not in the cards when I read that story. Meri feels that there will be people with lesser motives at the meeting and she feels that it would be wiser for her not to go because of that. I don't know why she would question who Beth/the family invited these individuals, but it seems she does and that is her good right as a free person. She posted all of this on Michelle's weblog over at Arubanboycott.

There is where the problems started. Now it may not have been a secret meeting (and why would it be, it is a very normal thing to do) but I could imagine the family also hadn't planned on making it public via the internet. Especially in the way it was done now. So it seems that Robin (according to a post made by Michelle) asked for it to be removed. I think she did this on behalf of her husband Dave (and possibly even Beth) and Michelle with a heavy heart (because it was a post of her dear friend Meri) did as Robin asked and removed the post..

This lead to a breaking off in the friendship of Meri and Michelle. Meri could not accept the actions that Michelle had taken in complying with a request made by Natalee's family (and YES, ROBIN IS NATALEE'S FAMILY TOOO!!!!). Michelle made a post explaining her actions in removing the post and Robin's request was made public for reasons that allude me completely. There was no need IMHO to mention that it was Robin that made the request in what I think was a request on behalf of the family (at least her and Dave) to remove the post.

Michelle later reversed her decision to remove the post at the center of the controversy and re-posted it but that is a whole different story as to whether that is right or wrong, as said it is her blog and her choice. Also Michelle runs a pretty unmoderated blog when it comes to responses (I think based on the responses that I do see on her blog). So even though I feel she should have never allowed these responses bashing Robin Holloway, this post on my blog is not about Michelle or her choice runnig a boycott site or even how she runs it because I think I made my feelings about that known before.

No this post is to speak up about a horrid attacks that people who visit her site have instigated against Robin Holloway, Natalee's stepmother and wife to Dave Holloway.

Suddenly I see cowards (yes cowards because a. the are attacking a direct family member of Natalee Holloway and b. because most of them are posting it anonymously) writing such horrid stuff like:

Beth needs to take complete control and charge of Natalee's case. Dave needs to get rid of his Bamalady. She is an embarassment to him and this case.

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I agree, however, I need to add to this. Dave doesn't only NEED to get rid of his Bamalady, he NEED's to set his wife straight as to who the Mother of Natalee is. Robin too has become an embarrassment to this case. She should back off and let Beth handle this case. Robin has made a fool out of herself @ BFN along with many others there. Debbie & Robin want to be famous. They have let the world know how foolish one can become. Bless yall's little southern hearts. Debbie, your getting Robin to come to BFN has backfired on you and Robin. You two will see in time what damage you have done, in writing.

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Robin enjoys seeing Beth bashed, now that the tables are turned, she doesn't like it. But, she brought this on her ownself. She is the one that started the drama at BFN. She is the one who thanked the bashers. She is the one crying now because Michelle refuses to remove the post. Robin, this is not about you! You saw Natalee twice a year and you want to be Natalee's Step-Angel? You're far from it dear. You've shown how much you care in your words!

And unfortunatly these weren't the only posts of this nature but no need to add insult to injury here by repeating more of these horrid comments on my blog.

So I am getting on my soapbox now:

HOW DARE THESE IDIOTS!!!!
Robin is a wonderful lady who has known Natalee ever since she was a young girl and has been married with Natalee's father Dave for many a year. She might be a "stepmother" to Natalee but that doesn't mean she doesn't love Natalee with all her heart or give you the right to insult her you %#**^@# #$$&$#@! (sorry for the badlanguage, I bleeped/censored myself).
Do you really think you are honoring the life and the person of Natalee Holloway (a person we know was a very very very nice young woman with a soft and compassionate personality) by insulting her stepmother and in part her father???? If you actually think it is OK to do this then you should better check yourself into the next mental hospital because that would prove you are criminally insane or need you stronger meds.

This is supposed to be about Natalee Holloway, her life, her tragic disappearance and our combined struggle to find out what happened that fateful night, our quest to get Natalee back home with her loved ones and our desire to make sure justice is served on whomever was involved in her disappearance and what happened after that.

SO STOP THE BASHING OF ROBIN/DAVE BECAUSE YOU ARE DISGRACING YOURSELF AND MAKING A MOCKERY OUT OF OUR CAUSE, YOU STUPID D#MB@SSES!!!

Rammstein